Live by your own rules. Move to your rhythm, instead of dancing to the beat of someone else’s drum. Decide how you want to be treated. Choose what you will or will not tolerate. Leave if you don’t get what you want.
A dreamgirl, on the other hand, won’t kill herself to impress anyone.
It’s that a bit of irreverence is necessary to have any self-esteem at all. Not irreverence for people, but rather, for what other people think.
If someone else doesn’t like your confidence, that’s their problem. Why? You always come before they do, that’s why.
Don’t believe what anyone tells you about yourself.
If a man isn’t being nice when you’re out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early.
Expressing yourself when he takes for granted doesn’t work.
And remember, it’s always her fault. That’s your story and you’re sticking to it.
If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you’ll create a void. Then to replace what you give up, you’ll start to expect and need more from your partner.
For a woman the objective is often a committed relationship also known as the destination. For a men roadtrip on the way to the destination is often the more fun.
Relationship Principle 3 He doesn’t marry a woman who is perfect. He marries the woman who is interesting.
You always want what you can’t have.
You can get away with saying much more with humor than you can with a straight face.
Relationship Principle 6 Men see how you dress, and then make assumptions about your relationship potential.
Women tend to love men in their presence, while men tend to love women in their absence.
It isn’t about looks; gorgeous women get dumped every day.
A beautiful woman can make herself look ugly in the eyes of a man if she is very insecure.
The nice girl makes the mistake of being available all the time.
Whether it’s your taste in clothing, your needs in a relationship, or what you do for a living – don’t let anyone else be at the controls. Define yourself.
Anything a person chases in life runs away.
Standing up for yourself doesn’t always involve verbal confrontation. Sometimes it’s about not wasting energy on people who are negative.