Just when you think you know who you are, life has this way of throwing a curveball and landing you back in the town of confusion; population: a vast majority of the human race.
Life should be more about living in the moment than fearing what’s happening outside it. It’s about honoring what you want to do at any given time, regardless of what everyone else is doing. There’s no use worrying about things that are out of your control.
Success involves failing first. Ask any successful person. Ask any experienced person, really. It’s all part of the creative process, so sit back and allow the artist within you to sprout, blossom and flourish. You must accept that your first, second, and third attempt at something might suck. It’s a necessary step in improving your skill. Failure is your teacher, not your judge.
Know this too: Some people won’t like you, and you won’t like everyone. That’s okay. None of that matters. What matters is meeting like-minded people who get you, accept you, and will do anything for you. Even if that means pegging some poor kid in the face with a snowball and sitting against a playground wall on a cold, snowy day.
Real life isn’t like that. It’s one take, unedited, imperfect, and littered with mistakes that we must repeat until we get it right – a truth for for teenagers and adults alike.
Failure is your teacher, not your judge.
It’s funny reading about how I behaved in the days before memories formed. So thanks for that input, Mom and Dad – wasn’t so bad after all.
No, the point of this story is that there are only a select few friends, past or present, that I would go to such lengths to stand by.
They say that the truth with ‘set you free’, but they neglect to tell us what happens when the truth is something we don’t want to hear.
I just became exposed to the world, like the blinders had been removed. In typical good-kid fashion, I never really experienced the “bad” things I was around, but my awareness of them increased.
Some call it growing up. I call it life, and in my experience, it doesn’t necessarily get easier over the years. But the eternal struggle is beautiful, and I’m happy to persevere.
I’ve learned from you, I need to go up now.
I surprise myself all the time by doing and accomplishing things I had never thought possible.
You are who you are in this given moment. Label-less. Limitless.
Ranking where people stand in your life and who they are to you helps you determine who you value the most and therefore where best to spend your time.
I can choose to either consciously live in fear of the unknown or melt into life’s warm embrace.
In suffering, you‘ve found a greater understanding and appreciation for all of life‘s wonders.
It’s hard to accept who we are, with all our imperfections.
Gender is specific only to your reproductive organs.
It allows you to be yourself, good and bad. And it’s a two-way street: you give and take equally.
Age might relieve many things, but it doesn’t ease our discomfort with uncertainty. The mind seeks clarity, but our souls prefer to wander into ambiguity.