People who don’t honor their losses don’t grieve. They may lose all joy in living, but they don’t actively mourn, and this means that they don’t heal.
You are consciousness dressed in form, my love. Consciousness is divine. Matter is divine. Creation is divine. Everything is divine. Are you somehow the only exception?
When you find yourself stressed, tense, and veering toward anxiety eating, take a time-out for just three breaths. Long, deep breaths.
The only way to get out of this suicidal pattern is to leave the battlefield by going to the Watcher’s place of peace. EXERCISE:.
If nothing’s working for you, if you feel as though you’re pushing forward against the grain, the most productive and proactive thing you can do is nothing. Nature is turning you inward, to gain power through peace, rather than outward to gain power through activity.
I am bewildering you a little. Just enough to help you forget what you came to believe, so that you can remember what you’ve always known.
I only put down on paper what works for me, and since I started out as a human train wreck, the ways I’ve learned to be happy also work for others.
Diana frowns. “You’re taking me home, right? You just said you would.” “Hoink hoink! Of course, piglet. But I meant your real home.” “Which, last I checked,” says Diana acidly, “is in Los Angeles, California, United States of America, solar system, planet Earth.” “Hmm,” says the boar, hiccupping dreamily. “That’s what you think, darling. Tell me, can you say you’ve felt really at home at that address? Haven’t you been homesick your whole life?
Emotions are virtually always responses to thoughts. That’s great news, because while it’s impossible to control an emotion once a thought has triggered it, we can change our thoughts deliberately. We do this not by contradicting them, but by questioning them. EXPLANATION:.
Even when she won’t fight for us, I’ll go to war for her.
I’m the glue that puts all her pieces together. All of those beautiful broken pieces are mine to fix. You’re just a bystander.
His smirk, reckless and way too sexy. I believe I just made a deal with the devil.
A rock star without rhythm is a man with no soul.” – Stone Lockhart.
Shaking his head, I watch mesmerized as his hand falls to the waistband of his jeans.
Brilliance in a scientist does not consist in being right more often but in being wrong about more interesting topics.
Sit Together Develop in an open space big enough for the whole team. Meet the need for privacy and “owned” space by having small private spaces nearby or by limiting work hours so team members can get their privacy needs met elsewhere.
Software development is a game of insight, and insight comes to the prepared, rested, relaxed mind.
Pair programmers: Keep each other on task. Brainstorm refinements to the system. Clarify ideas. Take initiative when their partner is stuck, thus lowering frustration. Hold each other accountable to the team’s practices. Pairing.
In software development, “perfect” is a verb, not an adjective. There is no perfect process. There is no perfect design. There are no perfect stories. You can, however, perfect your process, your design, and your stories.
No matter the circumstance you can always improve. You can always start improving with yourself. You can always start improving today.