You do have all five sense when you’re in a room together. You communicate and understand each other in a much deeper way. It is a different form of communication from writing or being on the web.
How can I combine career and family?
Whatever the gender of the participants, all pornography including male-male gay pornography is an imitation of the male-female, conqueror-victim paradigm, and almost all of it actually portrays or implies enslaved women and master.
If what’s inside your dreams wasn’t already real inside you, you couldn’t even dream it.
We teach what we need to learn.
Marriage works best for men than women. The two happiest groups are married men and unmarried women.
Hope is a very unruly emotion.
The need to treat ourselves as well as we treat others. It’s women’s version of the Golden Rule.
Self-hatred leads to the need either to dominate or to be dominated.
Most of us are living out the unlived lives of our mothers, because they were not able to become the unique people they were born to be.
Too much of our lives corresponds to the ‘lost-wallet’ theory of life. You lose something, spend a long time finding it, and then feel grateful to be back where you started.
The dogma is that that dogma is a mistake.
To me, the model of success is not linear. Success is completing the full circle of yourself.
One act of violence takes four generations to heal.
If you can learn to like how you look, and not the way you think you look, it can set you free.
We need to stop raising boys to think that they need to prove their masculinity by being controlling or by not showing emotion or by not being little girls.
Writers are notorious for using any reason to keep from working: over-researching, retyping, going to meetings, waxing the floors – anything.
Where men come to and women come together most intimately in sexuality in the home has become suffused with violence.
There is no such thing as a crime of passion, only a crime of possession.
If the men in the room would only think how they would feel graduating with a ‘spinster of arts’ degree they would see how important this is.