We are the stories we tell ourselves.
I have not been the witness I wanted to be.
My writing is a process of rewriting, of going back and changing and filling in. in the rewriting process you discover what’s going on, and you go back and bring it up to that point.
A pool is, for many of us in the West, a symbol not of affluence but of order, of control over the uncontrollable. A pool is water, made available and useful, and is, as such, infinitely soothing to the western eye.
I mean maybe I was holding all the aces, but what was the game?
I think nobody owns the land until their dead are in it.
Writers are only rarely likable.
California: The west coast of Iowa.
The fancy that extraterrestrial life is by definition of a higher order than our own is one that soothes all children, and many writers.
It Was Once Suggested to Me that, as an Antidote to Crying, I Put My Head in a Paper Bag.
My own fantasies of what life would be like at 24 tended to the more spectacular.
Strength is one of those things you’re supposed to have. You don’t feel that you have it at the time you’re going through it.
Ask anyone committed to Marxist analysis how many angels on the head of a pin, and you will be asked in return to never mind the angels, tell me who controls the production of pins.
I know why we try to keep the dead alive: we try to keep them alive in order to keep them with us.
Marriage is memory, marriage is time. Marriage is not only time: it is also, parodoxically, the denial of time.
I could talk more directly in a nonfiction voice than I could in fiction.
We tell ourselves stories in order to live... We look for the sermon in the suicide, for the social or moral lesson in the murder of five. We interpret what we see, select the most workable of the multiple choices. We live entirely, especially if we are writers, by the imposition of a narrative line upon disparate images, by the “ideas” with which we have learned to freeze the shifting phantasmagoria which is our actual experience.
You have your wonderful memories,” people said later, as if memories were solace. Memories are not. Memories are by definition of times past, things gone. Memories are the Westlake uniforms in the closet, the faded and cracked photographs, the invitations to the weddings of the people who are no longer married, the mass cards from the funerals of the people whose faces you no longer remember. Memories are what you no longer want to remember.
My only advantage as a reporter is that I am so physically small, so temperamentally unobtrustive, and so neurotically inarticulate that people tend to forget that my presence runs counter to their best interests. And it always does. That is one last thing to remember: writers are always selling somebody out.
As it happened, I didn’t grow up to be the kind of woman who is the heroine in a Western, and although the men I have known have had many virtues and have taken me to live in many places I have come to love, they have never been John Wayne, and they have never taken me to the bend in the river where the cottonwoods grow. Deep in that part of my heart where artificial rain forever falls, that is still the line I want to hear.