It is only your mental habits and your selected memories of how you think things are that keep you from moulding things in your life in a more harmonious way.
View others as unfolding beings in their journey toward higher consciousness.
Even when we get what we addictively want, our wanting to keep things that way automatically creates a new addiction.
I am perceiving everyone, including myself, as an awakening being who is here to claim his or her birthright to the higher consciousness planes of unconditional love and oneness.
Expand your love, your consciousness, and your loving compassion by experiencing everything that everyone does or says as though you had done or said it.
By tuning in to the ocean of loving energy around you, you can have far more security, enjoyable sensations, effectiveness, and love than you would ever need in order to live a continuously beautiful life.
As the watcher of the screen, you are perfect. The movie that is playing on the screen might be horrendous, but you are not the movie. You are what is watching the movie.
We are not the personalities that our egos are so valiantly defending. Our personalities are simply the result of our current programming.
You add to the suffering in the world when you take offense, just as much as you do when you give offense.
Think of the world as a loving place that is designed to give you everything that you need.
When a tire blows, you simply accept that this is the here and now reality of your life. You’ve lost the tire, but that doesn’t mean that you have to lose your peace and serenity. Now, serenely, begin to take the necessary steps in order the change the tire.
Allow yourself emotion-backed demands only for physical necessities such as air to breathe, food if starving, and shelter if freezing.
Upgrade your addictions to the status of preferences. Here’s the distinction between an addiction and a preference:.
Life is warning you to get rid of an addiction every time you are emotionally uncomfortable in any way.
Happiness does not lie in getting people and things outside of you lined up exactly to suit your desires.
The only real problem in your life is how you’re using your mind.
The outside conditions of your life do not make you feel either secure or insecure. One person may feel secure with practically no money at all, while another may feel insecure with a million dollars in the bank. Your feelings of security or insecurity are due to your emotional programming.
Acceptance doesn’t mean that you’ve resigned yourself to live the rest of your life with a particular person, or in a particular situation. It just means that you won’t cause yourself emotional discomfort because of the way things are in this moment.
You stop viewing yourself as being “pushed around” by the world when you realize that only you can “push” yourself. To quote Buddha: “Nothing is upsetting you. You get upset because you are upsettable.”
Once again, when you upgrade sensations from an addiction to a preference, you can enjoy things such as gourmet food and music, without having your happiness depend on them.