Energetically speaking, when you are lost in your thoughts, you are a closed system that’s emitting “I’m not available” vibes. You reduce the probability of meeting someone because spiritually, you’re not open for business.
Don’t wait until you find someone. You are someone.
Make is-ness your business and meet life as it shows up – not as you prefer it to show up.
In order to change ourselves, we must first believe we can.
If you believed to your core that everything really is figureoutable, what would you now do? What would you create or heal or transform or transcend? Who would you become?
As David Deutsch says, “Everything that is not forbidden by laws of nature is achievable, given the right knowledge.
Remember – humans once believed the world was flat, that margarine was better than butter, and that an ice-pick lobotomy cured mental illness. Aren’t you glad those days are over?
There’s a difference between owning your choices and blaming yourself.
Awareness is the key that allows you to stop automatically doing things that drive men away and begin naturally doing things that support happy and satisfying relationships. Master this stuff and you’ll notice that men, women, children, small animals, large animals, dust bunnies, and anything else that’s not glued down will find it virtually impossible to resist you.
If it’s important enough, I’ll make the time. If not, I’ll make an excuse.
Altering your behavior or being someone different from who you are is a recipe for disaster. He is attracted to you – the real you – just the way you are, not to some woman who has no life except for him.
Just because someone doesn’t like what you do doesn’t mean no one else will. A person’s opinion is not The Truth, it’s their truth.
Remember that gal that gave up? Neither does anyone else. Unknown.
There can be no significant change in the world unless we first have the courage to change ourselves. In order to change ourselves, we must first believe we can.
Envy is often a clue that there is something latent in you that needs to be expressed.
You are an extraordinary woman. You have a purpose in this world, and hiding behind a fictional story that you’re broken or incomplete is not it. The world needs you. It needs that very special something you knew you had when you were a little girl.
If you are possessed by an idea, you find it expressed everywhere, you even smell it. Thomas Mann.
It’s hard to become what you don’t see.
Our brains tend to reinforce what we already believe.
All beliefs are a choice and choices can be changed.