You need to face the pain and the fear and walk through the grief.
There is an interconnectedness among members that bonds the family, much like mountain climbers who rope themselves together when climbing a mountain, so that if someone should slip or need support, he’s held up by the others until he regains his footing.
People who consistently win have a clear and thoughtful strategy. They know what they need to do and when they need to do it. They write it down so they stay on course, and avoid any alternative that does not get them closer to the finish line.
Do it! People who succeed don’t just sit and think about what they want to do. They take meaningful, purposeful, directional action consistently and persistently. Every step they take puts them toward the outcome they’re looking for.
Champions get what they want because they know what they want. They have a vision that keeps them motivated and efficiently on track. They see it, feel it, and experience it in their minds and hearts. What is success for you? You won’t get there without knowing what it feels and looks like.
It’s hard to see your own face without a mirror.
In life you have three options with any situation that is a challenge. Remove yourself from the situation, change it, or accept it.
Know your goal, make a plan and pull the trigger.
There is no reality, only perception.
Change can come in either of two important ways: Start behaving positively or stop behaving negatively.
Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.
This is your life and the clock is ticking.
Loving smart means believing in you, your worth and your value.
People create their own experiences.
If you don’t have a plan, days turn into weeks, weeks turn into months, months turn into years, and before you know it you’re looking back saying, I should’ve had a plan.
Most choices are driven by immediate results.
Life is managed; it is not cured.
There is power in forgiveness.
You must demand nothing less than the best of yourself and for yourself. You must tell yourself that it is not wrong to want it all.
Those who marry for money end up EARNING it anyway.