The person who is least dependent on the outcome of the relationship will automatically draw the other person in.
If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he’ll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he’ll also take time to appreciate who she is.
She knows what she wants but won’t compromise herself to get it. But she’s feminine, like “Steel Magnolia” – flowery on the outside, steel on the inside. She uses this very femininity to her own advantage. It isn’t that she takes undue advantage of men, because she plays fair. She has one thing the nice girl doesn’t: a presence of mind because she isn’t swept away by a romantic fantasy. This presence of mind enables her to wield her power when it is necessary.
Familiarity breeds contempt and predictability breeds boredom.
It isn’t about the looks; gorgeous women get dumped every day. It isn’t about intelligence. Women of all types, from brilliant women to women with the IQ equivalent of plant life, pull it off every day. It’s about mystery and learning how to create intrigue.
Never assume you are not attractive enough, and therefore you have to overcompensate or chase a man. Taste is subjective.
A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and cannot be made to feel bad about herself.
It becomes a burden if you lean on him too much. He is only human, and he has his own problems. Show him that you’ll be an equal partner, which means that you also have something to contribute.
There will always be people who will be there to plant negative seeds in your garden, if you make yourself available for that.
Once a man begins to lose respect for a woman because she is willing to subtly devalue of herself, he will also lose the desire to get closer to her.
Women are conditioned to give themselves away.
If you always make him feel he has plenty of space to do his own thing, he’ll always feel that lust. You’ll be like a lover not like his mother. He’ll perceive you as a privilege rather than an obligation, and he’ll come your way.
Crystal said, “Okay, sweetie. I’m on my way. Give me five minutes to put on a garter belt under my raincoat. I’ll be there in forty minutes.” She also asked Brett to wait downstairs for her in the rain with an umbrella, so she wouldn’t get drenched walking to the front of his apartment complex. He waited and waited and waited. Three hours later, it occurred to him like a stunning revelation: No booty cometh.
The woman who is unforgettably sexy is a confident woman who can function on her own, and who won’t always let him have the upper hand... with one caveat... she can’t be too strong or combative that he feels emasculated.
Ignore him and he is intrigued. Make him the center of attention all the time and he runs.
People use the excuse of money, time, being away from the kids to stop being intimate or romantic. It’s really important to keep the passion.
To a guy, quality time consists of sitting in the same room and relaxing with a woman he’s in love with, even if they are both doing a separate activity. When a guy is madly in love, being together is exciting. If the chemistry is right, the girl would not need continual conversation. Without comfortable silence, he will never feel like he can recharge his batteries.
If you don’t hear from him for a little longer than usual, show him that you have absolutely no “attitude” about.
What women need to understand is that when a man considers a woman to be a prize, looks have very little to do with it. In the above example, it was a simple mind trick that goes like this: She acted like a prize, and then a funny thing happened. He completely forgot who he was looking at.
Joking with a guy doesn’t make your motives any less obvious. Allison is a perfect example. She and Jamie had been out a few times, and one night they had a few too many drinks. She looked at him and jokingly said, “Am I just a piece of ass, or do you have feelings for me?” What this says to a guy is that she has low self-esteem. If she knows she’s not a piece of meat, she would never ask that question.