The victim mindset will have you dancing with the devil, then complaining that you’re in hell.
Stop trying to explain yourself. People only understand things from their level of perception; within the parameters of their agreement with reality. Save your energy.
Relationships fail when people take their own insecurities and project them as their partner’s flaws.
Never underestimate the healing power of silliness and absurdity.
Sometimes you think you’re helping someone up, but they’re actually pulling you down. This is the painful dynamic of dealing with someone who is incurably selfish.
Sometimes you miss someone... think of them nostalgically... but then you see them again, and you’re like, nah.
Beware of perpetrators in disguise... Some people set fires wherever they go, and have mastered the art of playing the burn victim.
Dear haters, You’re never going to catch up. Because while you’re talking about how “lucky” I am, I’m working. While you’re talking about what you’re going to do, I’m already doing it. While you’re making resolutions, I’m setting behaviors.
Your silence is loudest to those who love you most.
Call me a ‘hopeless romantic’? I’m a romantic, but I’m not hopeless. I know there are good people out there; and that at least one of them is right for me. I won’t let you convince me to settle for less.
I refuse to suffer the torment of regret that comes with living a “what if” life.
Take back your power! I wish you the wisdom to realize that the problem isn’t that they keep lying to you; it’s that you keep believing them.
I don’t think haters are small-minded; it’s more tragic than that. I think they’re great minded, but choose to sell themselves short every day.
Haters have fallen into the tragic mindset of comparison; a form of psychological suicide.
Free yourself from the people who cause you drama and poison your soul. You know who they are... The first ones you thought of when you read this. They have to go.
Behavior speaks... I need not listen to someone’s apology; I’ll watch for it. I’ve learned not to let someone’s words blind me from their behavior.
If you want to be with someone, be with them! Don’t make excuses, cause drama, or make them fight for a spot in your life. Express your love and commitment with words and actions. And if you don’t feel inspired to show your love this way, be kind enough to let them go... so they can find someone who will.
The gossips, slackers, and hypocrites have always hated me. I’m ok with that. The weak minded often blame the mirror.
I wish for you the wisdom to realize that forgiveness has nothing to do with an apology.
I’m not distracted by the verbal blah blah... Behavior speaks... You either produce excuses or results. The rest is just noise.