We usually know a lover is on the way well before he gets here. As often as we hear stories like “I met my partner when I least expected to meet anyone,” on some level, we know that’s nonsense. A woman in touch with herself can sense the coming of things, and the come of love is like a deer running through a forest on the way to your door. We can feel a love approaching; and when we are in touch with the Goddess, we prepare ourselves in advance.