For every person who rides with a moral high-horse, they also have a dead horse that they haven’t fed lying somewhere out of sight.
Bullying builds character like nuclear waste creates superheroes. It’s a rare occurrence and often does much more damage than endowment.
I’m most disturbed by the theory of rubber resilience in children; as if its much easier to bounce back with youth. I see them more like Steel. When heated, they can be bent either which way. But if it’s not corrected by the time things cool down, they can be forever changed.
You must keep looking on the bright side, because you won’t find anything in the dark.