Knowledge is power, she had argued. And conversely, the withholding of knowledge is an act of oppression.
Imagine, living like that. Not having to hold your breath every time the checkout girl rings up your groceries, not having the shame that comes when you have to put something back. Not having to worry. “That sounds real nice,” I said.
But I came to realize that none of us leave this life unscathed. Each of us experiences loss, grief, and disappointment. In fact, sometimes our most painful moments and trying times turn out to be the opportunities that bring us more fully to ourselves.