Men need to realize that women take longer to get aroused and satisfied – sometimes 6 -8 times longer. Make the journey pleasurable.
Making love is not something you do to someone – it’s something you share. Lovemaking between men and women should be mutually pleasurably. Both women and men should be fully and completely satisfied.
Most women prefer lovemaking with romance, appreciation, respect, and caring with plenty of foreplay, satisfaction, and afterglow.
If women were totally satisfied with their sexual and lovemaking experiences, women would welcome the lovemaking experience as much as men.
Each of us has a heart, a soul, and feelings. Each of us desires to be wanted, to be appreciated, and to be loved. The enchantment in life is to discover and spend time with another person who knows that and expresses it. In this context, the liberation of our naked bodies in the act of lovemaking is what gives us ultimate pleasure.
Women need to assert their rights in the bedroom too – many women have done so in the workplace; many women have done so in house chores and parenting, but women’s rights are sorely lacking in the bedroom.
Intimacy and lovemaking – intertwined, meshed, and one becoming the other – are what I strive to achieve each time I am presented with the opportunity to enjoy a lovemaking experience.
In the purest sensual and intimate act of lovemaking, there is a give and take, and both partners actively choose among and agree to the expressions. In reciprocal lovemaking, a woman is equally satisfied and drives the experience just as much as her man.