We attract what we are. We attract who we are.
By choosing to have a calm response to what seems negative you bring clarity and balance to your message.
Another person’s thoughts about you are outside of your jurisdiction; you have no authority.
When you realize that the feeling you have – is – the response you choose, you are free in that moment.
All defensiveness and emotional tumult is a fear response because of your need for acceptance and ruthless control of the territory of your safe fantasy world.
All defensiveness stems from the need to be right and frustration over not being able to control others.
Conflict is a natural part of existence. Life is a struggle for survival for every organism at every level.
You have to reach out to your inner-abuser and make peace. You can’t live your life as your own worst enemy!
Maybe you never considered yourself a bully, a batterer or an abuser before, but maybe you are – to yourself.
Enjoyable social interaction, community and laughter has a healing effect on the mind and body.
Excessive self-criticism is a bad habit and extraordinarily self-destructive. Don’t be your own worst enemy!
An important part of becoming your best self is being very careful about your self-talk and self-stories.
Practically every successful person you know of is successful, in part, because they moved the destructive and disruptive people out of their lives.
There is more than one way to lose your life; quickly through violence, or fettered-away and wasted around dreadful, toxic people.
Love toxic people from a distance.
This is the eternal challenge with ignorance – ignorance can’t see itself.
Sometimes the way to share your love is to let someone go.
When we constantly meditate on another’s faults, it is because we are neglecting our own unhealed wounds.
When we hold-on to someone’s imperfections we become emotionally pair-bonded to their maladies.
When we judge and agonize over another’s faults, we become attached to their imbalance and sickness.