When it comes to men, deal with them as they are, not how you’d like them to be.
I believe in love the verb, not the noun.
If a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons he needs to take things slow, he will let you know that immediately. He won’t keep you guessing, because he’ll want to make sure you don’t get frustrated and go away.
If a man is really into you, nothing will stop him from being with you – including a fear of intimacy.
Why should you feel honored for getting scraps of his time?
But he was so great!? Yes, and the people who got on the Titanic thought they were going on a vacation.
Don’t you want the guy who’ll forget about all the other things in his life before he forgets about you?
A man would rather be trampled by elephants on fire than tell you he’s just not that into you.
If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.
The only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.
Remember always what you set out to get, and please don’t settle for less.
It is in that moment, when you really lay down your cards and see the relationship for what it was, that you’ll find the freedom to kick it in the ass and let it go.
There will never be a good time, financially, to get married, unless you’re Shaq or Ray Romano. But somehow people manage. If your man is using money as an excuse not to marry you, it’s your relationship that’s insecure, not his bank account.
The word “busy” is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact, in every silo you uncover, all you’re going to find is a man who didn’t care enough to call. Remember: Men are never too busy to get what they want.
Trust yourself, because as Oprah says, doubt means don’t every time.
He doesn’t need to be reminded you’re great.
Wasting time with the wrong person is just time wasted.
An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of ’ruining the friendship.
Maybe this is just me, because my priorities have changed as I’ve gotten older. But now I don’t want to be ‘sort of dating’ someone. I don’t want to be ‘kinda hanging out’ with someone. I don’t want to spend a lot of energy suppressing all my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved.
The time it takes to feel better about a breakup is directly proportional to the time it takes to feel better about yourself.